If you’re here, we’re assumuming you’ll want to talk to a girl. If this isn’t the case, for example if you want to ask a guy just how exactly their minds’ work, don’t worry, you’ll get the option later.

You’re probably here because you’ve either got a sensitive problem that you want confidential advice on, or you’re looking for advice on dating or sexuality. Either way, don’t worry, your secret is safe with us.

You’ll probably not want it to be dead obvious to the whole world that you’re using this service, so we recommend that you get yourself a free internet e-mail address. In this case, your e-mails won’t come directly back to your home computer, so you won’t get anyone nosing into your messages, and only you will know the password to retrieve the e-mails. You can also use a psuedonym, (a fake name), so there’s no chance of anyone tracing you. Services such as hotmail and www.k.st are both examples of free web-based e-mail providers. We recommend www.k.st. So off you go, get yourself a www.k.st e-mail address, and we’ll see you in a minute.

Here are our tips for mailing us.

· Give yourself a name. It’s not necessary to use a real name, but it makes it a lot easier for us to associate with you if we’ve got a name. It also means that if you send us more than one problem, we can remember who you are.

· If you’re worried about something, write a short paragraph to give us the background to your specific story. This will not only help us to give you a more accurate response, but will help you to get the facts clear in your own mind before you ask the question(s)

· If you need a shoulder to cry on, feel free to pour everything out. As often as not, it’s purely the process of actually writing things down that helps you to get your mind sorted. If you want a reply, let us know, but if you don’t actually have a question to ask, don’t worry if it takes us a while to get back to you.

You should now be ready to mail us your problems. Click here to continue.